Welcome to this week’s Blonde Intelligence with me, Ms. Roni, where I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. I was pondering one day, just thinking about all that has gone on in 2020. So much has gone on that I could not remember how or if the 420 holiday was celebrated this year. So, I had to take a break from the matrix and do some meditating.
According to the website, www.numerology-thenumbersandtheirmeanings.blogspot.com, the number four (4) resonates with energies of practicality, dignity, organization, endurance, mastery and building foundations. The number two (2) resonates with the energies of teamwork, relationships, diplomacy….that events in life will require teamwork to reach goals (AffinityNumerology.com). The number zero (0) all that is wide and open, infinite possibilities, all or nothing.
During that time and even developing trends with Covid had most of the world essentially shut down for at least the month of April. At that time many people were losing money. So, looking deeper, how was 420 really celebrated this year? According to Astrosofa.com, it was with the moon in Aries. The moon in Aries raises our energy and gives us confidence in our own skills. With the moon in Aries, the mind is quick and sharp, new projects are started with high assertion. This is the best time to tackle difficult things. Couple that with the meanings of each number and the Aries moon should have put you in the High Priestess/High Priest which is using your intuition for guidance with an air of mystery. This means working behind the scenes, just watching and observing.
By Lionsgate Portal (8/8/20) the Emperor/Empress should have emerged. The Lionsgate Portal is your straight connection to the spiritual realm to specifically ask for your abundance. The Emperor represents new opportunities, abundance, nurturing, new business, and creativity. I hope the seeds sown on 420 were good seeds because harvest season is coming… Now you know women build tolerance to marijuana faster than a man, she can keep her composure while singing along with Rick James to Mary Jane. But remember the gifts that lead you to create from Mary should be leading you to your harvest. 420 means more than a stoner's holiday if you are awake in the 5D. Happy Belated 420!!!
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Welcome to this week’s Blonde Intelligence with me, Ms. Roni, where I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. This week I want to speak about hand washing. I used to be a baker and a parent educator and handwashing is a must. So, one thing that I find very offensive is people not washing their hands.
I am sure that every woman has experienced this scenario….I was in the restroom at work. There was also another lady in the restroom. She flushed the toilet and left. She did not wash her hands…. My thoughts were….I wonder if she realized that she just patted her W.A.P., touched the toilet handle, touched the door handle and took all of her germs along the way back to her workspace. Ladies if you are going to the restroom and not washing your hands when you leave….that is filthy. The thing is, I have seen many women commit this act of filth…as if this is sanitary.
There was a man that told me that he never washes his hands when he uses the restroom unless he does the other thing…Again….why would he think after touching his wand that it is okay to touch anything else and it wouldn’t be contaminated??? Acts such as taking a leak on the side of the house without washing your hands is also unacceptable, it is filthy. According to the CDC (2020) there are key times when you are likely to spread germs. One likely time to spread germs is before, during, and after meal prep. How many times have you been to a BBQ outside and the person skips some hand washing??? Some people don’t even wash their meat, but moving on.
Another key time when a person is likely to spread germs is after using the toilet….we have already discussed this and labeled it as…..FILTHYYYY (In my Men on Film voice, In Living Color). Another time when a person is likely to share germs is after blowing their nose, coughing, or sneezing. I had a superintendent in high school that would blow his nose, cough, and clean his face with the same handkerchief and never washed his damn hands. Some people will dig in their nose with their bare fingers and not wash their hands….again in my Men On Film voice…..FILTHYYYY (Hated It!!!).
The last for this blog and very important key time when a person is likely to spread germs is after touching animals, their food, or their poop. I have seen several videos that involved animals that were not sanitary. One video had a baby licking on the cat’s tail and ear, the parents filming thought that it was cute. I saw another video where the dog got over into the bathtub with the owner. Another video where the dog licked the owner in the face in the kitchen while cooking. Even the animal eating off the owners eating utensil….no hand washing at all.
Wash your hands, according to the CDC, sanitizer does not kill all germs…visibly dirty or greasy hands reduces its effectiveness. Soap and water always work….be sure to use frequently on your hands and other parts of your body to reduce the spread of germs.
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Hello welcome to this week’s Blonde Intelligence with me, Ms. Roni where I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. I have heard many people say that they won’t vote because their vote doesn’t count anyway. So wrong….. Some people are only aware of one way in which your vote counts, but there are two. Of course, at the ballot is one way to vote. Have you ever heard of the electoral college vote? The other way to vote is through completing your census questionnaire, which determines the electoral college. How? When the census questionnaire is completed, it determines the number of representatives in your state for the House of Representatives. Completing the census questionnaire helps funding for unemployment insurance, community block grants, educational programs, public transportation, hospitals, Medicare/Medicaid, SNAP, and more.
You get your chance to help shape the legislature...once every ten years. So, understand that your vote does count. Your census questionnaire is your vote to form the electoral college, House of Representatives, determine the federal budget for your needs. It is your right to vote and it counts more than you know. When you complete your census, your vote counts in everything for the next ten years. If you have not completed your census questionnaire visit www.2020census.gov.
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“Black women are so unprotected” Megan Thee Stallion
Welcome to this week’s Blonde Intelligence with me, Ms. Roni, where I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. This week I want to dig a little into how Black Men actually treat Black Women. I interviewed several men and women on their definition of what a “good man” is. It seems that men equate being a good man to having assets. Whereas women look at the emotional aspects of the male personality. One man deemed himself as a good man because he had a career, a pension, took care of his children, had a home, and was independent. But that same man has a woman that he talks to out of state, two women on opposite sides of town, and a roommate that he sleeps with sometimes. See, all of the assets that he feels deem him as a good man….but what does his actions say? And he is doing this to Black Women….
According to the Good Man Project (2018) a good man is secure, not arrogant, he treats everyone with respect until given a reason not to, he is loyal and a man of his word. He is a protector and takes responsibilities for his actions. A good man expresses his emotions and doesn’t hold stereotypes. Last week I touched on emotional abuse and provided some red flags to look for, but we need to look at the everyday emotional abuse of Black Women specifically at the hands of Black Men. We always hear Black Men say that a Black Woman is supposed to be his peace, but what peace is being provided to her? According to Bromell (2020) Black Women’s obligation of defending and protecting Black Men is not reciprocated in the same manner. Look how our Black Women are referred to in music. I got a song to review and every other sentence was about what he was going to tell that bitch to do and what this bitch did. I had to tell him…you know that you were submitting to a woman….right? The problem is that he did know that he was submitting to a woman, but the mistreatment of Black Women has become so common that he did not see his faux pas.
It seems that respect for Black Women is not given, Black Men will respect a woman because he knows her, but will freely disrespect a Black Woman he doesn’t know. This week I have read so many posts by men on their disagreement in a particular divorce settlement, totally disrespecting a woman that they don’t even know….what the hell? According to www.scholars.org, Black Women are expected to embody strength at all times, even when they are unable to do so. Strength through taking care of the kids, strength through the other woman she found out about, strength through dealing with his low vibrational family members and friends, strength through broken promises, strength through him just up and leaving, strength through him not calling anymore, strength through all the disrespect on so many levels….on top of racism and all other societal pressures.
According to www.ReachOut.com, an emotional abuser’s goal is to undermine another person’s feeling of self-worth and independence. Black Men do you think cheating, lying, using money as leverage, ghosting, not taking responsibility for f@ck ups, verbal abuse, and in some cases physical abuse help build a Black Woman self-worth? Would it build yours as a Black Man? How would it make you feel? Just because you have assets does not give you the freedom to disrespect and emotional abuse the very damn place you seek for your peace. Black Men evaluate your treatment of All Black Women because if your actions and/or words undermine her feelings of self-worth in any situation, it is emotional abuse.
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Welcome to this week’s Blonde Intelligence with me Ms. Roni, where I always seek to give you exquisite cranial repertoire. This week I want to touch on emotional abuse and signs to watch out for when dating. When people think of abuse they commonly think of physical abuse and verbal abuse, but emotional abuse precedes and are a part of both physical and verbal abuse. A perpetrator of emotional abuse can be a parent, spouse, romantic partner, and co-worker/supervisor, or even a child. According to Psychology Today, emotional abuse is gradual and subtle that slowly damages the victim’s confidence and self-esteem in which the recovery period is longer than physical violence. Recently I did a podcast on dating after divorce and one of the points one of the panelists made was, when dating you have to be discerning and look at red flags because the dating scene has changed. Also, you have to be discerning about who you introduce to your children.
While reading the article, The Truth About Abusers and What To Do, it says despite the fact the person is expressing love and affection, some red flags of a potential abuser are unwilling to compromise, outburst of anger, rude, critical of you and or family (including children), jealous, possessive, paranoid, and threats. The article also stated that physical violence often does not begin until after marriage or childbirth when its harder to leave. In the article 10 Relationship Red Flags (2014) a partner that doesn’t communicate, immature, can’t be trusted, unliked by friends and family, controlling, secretive, or abusive (emotional, psychological, physical) are indicators that some questions and answers need to critically evaluated.
Yet we see a woman or a man get dogged out and never leave. Some will let their own children get abused. Grownups teasing a child until they are crying is abuse. An adult hitting a small child hard as they can is abuse. Telling little boys that they are not supposed to cry is suppressing their feelings is abuse. Recently there was a video on Facebook where a father abused his daughter while his wife recorded it. The wife was talking shit in the background giving instructions on how to abuse his own daughter. Were there not any red flags. If a man or woman hits you or talk to you any kind of way…..how do you think he or she will treat your children when you are not around? As Sommore said, you have to find out if a ni@@a has a tendency to beat some ass. If you know a person has issues…look at the red flags. Remember emotional abuse precedes other abuse….watch out for the red flags.
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